Many girls are complaining that their boyfriends only make them drink more hot water. Indeed, girls who drink hot water every day not only don’t feel the slightest care from this sentence, but also don’t get the slightest care from them. How can you not be disgusted by substantial help?
So besides drinking more hot water, do you know what other problems make girls annoying? Here are a few of the problems that boys have that “deeply hate” girls:
1. Don’t know how to communicate
Want to experience two people Communication is an essential component of happiness together. Without communication, there is no way for you to understand each other and form a tacit understanding.
Then the problems that arise are: (1) You and she say different things and do different things, and you still pretend to be the same person when you are clearly not on the same channel. How tired is it? (2) You have something on your mind but can't express it, and you don't understand what she has on her mind. You keep all your grievances in your heart until the moment it finally breaks out, pushing the matter into an irreversible situation.
2. Forced awkward chat
"The weather is really nice today. "
"Yes, there are dark clouds everywhere."
"Your dinner looks delicious."
"Yes, mustard with porridge. ”
Some people are afraid that if they have nothing to talk about when getting along with girls, they will be labeled as boring by girls. Especially boys who are not good-looking enough and whose wallets are not fat enough, are afraid that if they are labeled as "boring" again, then there will be nothing left to catch her eye. So they will forcefully start a conversation even though they have nothing to say.
If you really don’t know how to speak and can’t find a topic, the result of this will be to ramble on here and there and send some expressions that you think are interesting, with no logic between each sentence and no topic. The content is uninteresting, and the girls listening will be anxious for you. Isn’t this just awkward chatting!
Forcing awkward chatting is not a good thing. If you have nothing to say, girls will give you a 0. , then you will get negative points if you force an awkward conversation.
3. Only consider satisfying your own feelings
He wants to date someone Girls, then you must find ways to date her, regardless of why the girl wants to date him.
If he wants to chat with a certain girl, he must chat until he is satisfied, regardless of whether the girl wants to continue chatting.
If he likes a girl, he will definitely pursue her, regardless of whether the girl will fall in love with him or not.Would love your own questions.
Such boys often feel that the world revolves around them. For example, as long as he likes a girl, he feels that the girl will also like him. Even if he is slapped with hands and feet, he feels that the girl is saying no. , I was thinking a lot.
In the eyes of girls, without exception, such boys are stalkers, annoying men, or even weird perverts.
When you do this, have you ever considered why girls cater to your needs and cooperate with your actions? What can she gain? Is she interested in this? Have you considered it?
For example, when you invite a girl, many thoughts will flash through her mind, such as why I want to come out, what I am going to do, and whether I will gain or lose by going out. However, although the girl thinks a lot, she does not want to get a specific answer, she just wants a step up, a reason that can convince herself that it is worth doing this.
If you want a girl to accept you more easily, you must learn to make excuses for her so that she has enough reasons to convince herself to do so.
4. Reason with girls
"What do you think I said? Wrong? Okay, okay, today I will explain it to you clearly. This is what happened, okay (3,000 words are omitted below). ”
Some boys want him to show weakness to others. That is absolutely impossible, even if you are the person I like. In order to create their own tall image, they especially like to suppress girls. After a girl disagrees with them, they like to present facts and reason, trying to convince her to realize her mistakes.
In fact, girls are not interested in studying who is right or wrong between you and her. They will only see that you are full of self-righteousness and self-satisfaction. Anyway, she doesn't owe you anything. If you suppress her, the worst she can do is stay away from you.
