What does flirting mean? The first time everyone heard the term wingman was probably in Love Apartment. The combination of Lu Ziqiao and Zhang Wei in the play has become a point of laughter for us many times. A good flirt and host can work together to pick up girls and build a closer relationship. So how important is it to have a good flirt when chasing girls? Let’s analyze how important it is to have an excellent wingman:
What does flirting mean?
The first point is to highlight the high value of the host in all aspects
The core role of the wingman is to set off Your high value, so the role of the wingman cannot be too high, but it cannot be without value. If your wingman has no value and behaves like a clown, girls will think you are low. If your wingman performs too well and his value unknowingly exceeds yours, girls' eyes will shift from you to your wingman. Then there are What's the matter with you?
But the high value that the wingman demonstrates does not necessarily require earth-shattering events, but small things that are very detailed. For example, wingman: I heard that you picked up an injured puppy some time ago. It must have cost a lot of money! Boy: As long as the dog is fine. Girl: You are so kind, Aba, Aba. In addition, things like CET-4 or CET-6, or school activities you have participated in, or what big deal the company has negotiated, and other similar things that can highlight your own value, you can ask your wingman to take the initiative to mention it, showing your value. , it arouses the interest of girls, and the credibility of the information learned from others is very high.
Second point, help you overcome obstacles when dating girls
Wingman can help you advance the date There are many ways to make relationships, from eating to dealing with the waiter taking photos of you, helping to drive or take a taxi to your destination, helping to buy some fruits, etc., etc., etc., as long as it can create opportunities for you and the girl. If a girl brings a best friend, should you interact with the best friend or the girl? If a girl says something like "best friend", there is a high probability that your thinking will be confused, but with an excellent wingman, you can pull away from the girl's best friend, attract the attention of the girl's best friend, let the wingman and best friend be online together, watch the fire from the other side, and then add another one to add fuel to the fire. , thereby helping you and girls create opportunities to be alone and develop further.
The third point is that I can help you with analysis and suggestions
Many times when you chase a girl and the girl rejects you in the end, you don’t even know why. Maybe it happened while you were chatting. problem, or maybe there is something wrong with your behavior somewhere, which has a bad influence on girls, etc. As the saying goes, the authorities are obsessed with the beholder, and your wingman will definitely be able to see the reason for your rejection from the perspective of an onlooker, even if you and your crush No matter how well the girls get along, the wingman will always be able to tell you how to do better next time, where to continue dating next time, etc.suggestion.
There will always be loopholes in a person's thinking and understanding. If you try hard to pursue a girl, there will be no one to discuss and puzzle with. , you are constantly searching the Internet for routines and techniques to chase girls. It is better to find a reliable wingman and let the wingman analyze it for you from an outsider's perspective. The effect may be much better.
But you have to be careful when looking for a wingman, after all. A good wingman can help each other achieve a win-win situation, but a bad friend who comes to the scene with the intention of causing trouble will make it easier for you to overturn and even cause competition with each other. So it is very necessary to find your wingman, treat him to a meal, and discuss the plan.
