Many boys don’t know whether or what gifts they should give when courting girls. If you buy something too expensive, you have no money; if you buy something cheap, girls will dislike it. Sometimes girls dislike your gifts, not just because of the price, but also because of the timing. The following analyzes why giving gifts is frowned upon, and provides recommendations for gifts suitable for girls.
1: Does this girl want to receive your gift?
Some people may ask Now, are there any girls who don’t want to receive gifts? Don’t tell me, there are indeed some. Think about it, if there is a girl who is not very good-looking, fat, ugly and sloppy, but she likes you, pursues you sincerely, chats with you every day, and often wants to ask you out. Several of your good buddies found out about this matter, and as a result, they often made fun of you two. Think of the plots about "buck-toothed girls" in Hong Kong and Taiwan movies. For most men, being pursued by an ugly woman is actually quite embarrassing, because it will affect their social evaluation and cause trouble in their lives. If at this time, this girl came to you again and gave you a gift she carefully prepared, would you be willing to accept it?
On the other hand, if a girl does not like a boy, then the boy will pursue her inappropriately. To the other party, it is a kind of harassment. No matter how valuable the gift is, it has become a carrier of purpose and ambition. Girls are not willing to accept this kind of gift.
2: Under what circumstances did you receive it?
Most girls are different from boys. Girls care more about social evaluation than boys. Especially in some companies with more serious business, such as state-owned enterprises and government departments, if the girl is working and there are many colleagues in the company, she comes directly to deliver the goods or the courier/takeaway person comes to deliver the goods, then this scene is actually extremely embarrassing. . Imagine: In a serious state-owned enterprise, everyone is immersed in work, and the boss is also handling business in the company. At this time, the courier knocks on the door and comes in, holding a large bouquet of flowers, looking for Ms. XXX, and there is a small note on the flowers. , with words of admiration written all over it, the atmosphere was awkward. Another example is people who confess their love directly on the street or give gifts. Do things like this happen a lot in Sanlitun, Beijing?
3: Your relationship
There is a family relationship between men and women. , friend relationship, pursuing and being pursued relationship, lover relationship, husband and wife relationship, PAO friend relationship, etc. In different relationships, girls have different acceptance and requirements for gifts.
Not much to say about the relationship between family members and friends. In the relationship between pursuing and being pursued, we must consider whether a girl is interested in us, how interested she is, give gifts reasonably, and choose gifts reasonably. If the two people are just beginning to be ambiguous, it is best not to give gifts randomly at this time. It is useless. It is better to do less than to do more. At this time, if a gift passes by, it is very likely that the girl will have random thoughts in her mind.If you want to go, you may take a side road. Or when two people are in the ambiguous stage, they suddenly give each other an expensive ring or necklace, which will scare the other party. Or maybe the girl is not interested in you at all. The money spent on giving gifts is worse than donating to the Hope Project, which can also help those children in need.
Even the same relationship, different modes of getting along and experiences, all require different considerations. For example, in a couple relationship, two people have been together for three years. You read on the Internet that you can give lipstick to your girlfriend, so you gave her a lipstick in the first year, another lipstick in the second year, and another lipstick in the third year. It is appropriate. ? Inappropriate. For another example, you heard that you can give perfume to your girlfriend. In the first year, you gave her a LV bag, in the second year, you gave her Hermès shoes, and in the third year, you gave her a CK-one perfume. Is it appropriate? Not appropriate. .
4: Specific types of gifts
At this point, everyone should actually understand that giving Gifts cannot be generalized. There is no 100% universal gift. You still have to choose different gift strategies according to different situations. However, I would like to recommend a few gifts to you, so you can consider them as appropriate.
Perfume
Perfume is actually still a very suitable gift, but choosing perfume is also more sophisticated. Different fragrance types, top notes, middle notes and bottom notes, EDP
The difference, brand and appearance of the EDT bottle are all crucial.
If this girl is a heroic type (handsome young lady), then the pink fragrance may not be suitable.
And when you are sending perfume, you should at least have some knowledge about perfume and be able to tell some basics, such as what the top note is, what the middle note is, and what the base note is. I know a lot about their products~ Otherwise, when you give them as gifts, it would just be a bottle of perfume.
Pendants
Pendants are not necklaces. Their meanings are different. The price of ordinary crystal pendants, such as Swarovski, is relatively reasonable, much cheaper than tiffany. Of course, if you have enough budget, you can also buy something more expensive.
Fireflies
In the summer, fireflies are sold on Taobao in glass bottles. How many girls have seen fireflies now? Not many, you can give them.
Consumption receipts
If two people are in a relationship, if you are interested, you can save all the receipts for eating, watching movies, and shopping since you met and put them into a small in the box. When the time comes, give it to the other person. This will be a testimony of the love between the two, plus some sweet words, it will be great.
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There are many things to pay attention to when giving gifts. One is to look at the timing, and the other is to look at the value. Expensive ones are not as good as good ones. When giving gifts, you must think about whether girls will use this gift. If it is a gift that a girl likes very much, then she often puts it around so that when she sees the gift, she will think of you.