"If you like it, accept it; if you don't like it, reject it." This is the idea of ????most boys, but girls are different. Most of them will not say it directly if they like or dislike it. Therefore, guessing girls' thoughts is a headache for many boys. question. So when you encounter a girl who ignores you and doesn’t delete you, can you still pursue her?
1. The mentality of a girl who ignores you and does not delete you
In fact, a girl who ignores you and does not delete you is nothing more than the following psychology:
1. To you Temporary loss of interest
Girls will screen boys when choosing a mate. The girl mentioned here has temporarily lost interest in you. It may be that you are recognized by girls in some aspects, but girls are still dissatisfied with you in other areas. , but it’s not enough to make girls give up on you. Girls are actually conducting a disguised inspection of you.
2. Ignoring your existence
Beautiful girls have no shortage of suitors around them. They may meet many boys every day and receive many messages. It is impossible to go to them all. Replies can only be targeted. When a girl ignores you and doesn't delete you, it means you are still in the stage of being investigated.
3. Not interested in your topic
The criterion for girls to judge a boy in chat is the interest indicator. If you can arouse girls’ interest and make girls happy during chat, Only girls will have the motivation to continue chatting with you. For social evaluation, a girl will not delete you if you are not particularly annoying, but if a girl feels that chatting with you is boring, she will ignore you. of.
2. If a girl ignores you and doesn’t delete her, how can you continue to chase her?
Now that you understand that a girl is ignoring you After not deleting your psychology, I believe you all have your own answers to whether you can continue to pursue it. So if you want to continue pursuing, how should you pursue her?
1. Build your mentality
In the process of pursuing a girl, your mentality is very important. When a girl ignores you, it will not matter to you. When your attitude is very cold and you are not deleted at the same time, you are actually testing a boy's mentality to see if you can resist the emotional induction of girls.
If you are eager to know why a girl does this and question her, you will expose your own needs to her. A taboo in the process of chasing a girl is to reveal your need in advance before you have clearly ascertained the girl's liking for you. This will only make you more passive, and in the end you will only become the girl's licking dog or put on the "good guy card" ”
So when encountering this kind of situation, we should treat it with a normal attitude and take the initiative to chat with her in the most normal tone and mentality. If she ignores you, talk to her again after a while.
2. Don’t question the girl and start a new topic
Generally speaking, if a girl ignores you, she either doesn’t see it or she sees it. I don’t want to reply.
If you don’t see it, wait until she sees it. If you don’t reply after seeing it, it won’t make much sense if you ask the girl to make up for it. Of course, it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t make up for it all the time. Because you are chasing her after all, you have to take the initiative, and you will naturally have to bear the indifference, difficulties, and failures in the pursuit.
3. Find problems and grasp the rhythm of the chat
Many boys chat with girls through flirting when they like them. But when a girl doesn’t reply to you, the first reaction is to wonder if he is acting too flirty. The more he thinks about it, the more he feels that this is the case, so you will If you can't help but explain, you will lose as soon as you explain.
Blindly flirting with girls in a chat can easily make you passive. As long as a girl ignores you, you will be directly controlled by the pace of the chat. The specific method is to chat with the girl normally. When the girl is in a good mood, flirt with her. If she is in a bad mood and ignores you, you must stay calm and don't be too proactive. Don't ask the girl why she doesn't speak. The girl thinks you are begging her to chat.
