No matter how good you are at flirting with a girl, you must not reveal these three thoughts in the girl's face. Otherwise, not only will you not be able to chase her in the end, but you will also become more and more confused on the road to love, and even your life will be confused. Will lose direction.
1. Must catch her
The so-called "must catch her" refers to You have a strong sense of purpose.
You publicize this matter that should belong to you two so that all your mutual friends know about it.
However, in the process of pursuing girls, this approach is very wrong.
You look like a stupid domineering president who will only make girls feel great pressure.
Falling in love is originally a pleasant and comfortable process. It would be better for you to do the opposite.
How could a girl, and how dare she agree to your pursuit so easily?
The more people know, the more people are nagging in the girls’ ears, and the girls will be annoyed to death. .
Even if a girl likes you at first, she will definitely move further and further away from you under this 360-degree pressure.
The correct way to pursue it should be natural, with a breeze blowing on your face.
Don’t overdo it, show it appropriately, you just need to convey to her ‘I want to catch you’ just right, there is no need to make a big show of it.
2. Can I catch her?
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You clasp your fingers, wondering about the probability that you can catch her. You feel uncertain, hesitant, worried about gains and losses.
If a girl sees you in this way, she will only think that you are very opinionated.
You regard love as a big deal and care about both gain and loss. You show extreme desire in love. What will girls think?
This Is there something wrong with the boy? He has never chased a girl before, right? I'd better stay away from him.
Faced with the question of whether we can catch a girl, we have only one answer, which is to tell ourselves, I can do it.
As a man, you can’t say no.
Take the pursuit of girls lightly, take it one step at a time, and think more carefully about your relationship.
Don’t worry too much about things that are available or not, as you will often get results without any effort.
3. What kind of girl is she?
The so-called thinking about her carefully refers to us Think about the girl's needs instead of judging the person.
First of all, humans are complex creatures. Sometimes we can’t even see ourselves clearly, let alone others?
The more important point is that when you think about her, you will always wonder. Avoid labeling yourself.
What’s ‘cute’, ‘generous’, ‘active’, ‘vindictive’, etc.
No matter what kind of evaluation you have made about girls in your heart, never say it out loud when getting along with girls.
Everyone knows at first sight that they shouldn’t say “holding grudges” to girls, but I know that some people will ask, can’t they say “cute” too?
That’s right, “cute” ' is a complimentary word, and it's okay if you say it occasionally.
But if you always say that girls are cute, girls will think that you particularly prefer ‘cute’ girls.
If she has a crush on you, she will unconsciously show only her 'cute' side in front of you.
In this way, you lose the possibility of seeing more sides of girls.
But true love is based on multi-faceted understanding.
If you want to get a true love, please don’t let your unintentional words constrain her.
The three points I mentioned above are the wrong thoughts that many boys can easily expose.
But the person involved was completely unaware of it, which led to him feeling that he was out of the game inexplicably during the process of pursuing the girl.
I believe everyone will notice these points in the future and control them consciously. You will find that girls become much easier to chase.
