Some men have been single because they are busy with work. As time goes by, they see their classmates, friends and colleagues around them getting into pairs. As they get older and older, they want to find a girlfriend but find that they have nothing to do. How should older and single men find girlfriends?
1. Meet girls through blind dates
Unless you are really outstanding and very popular with girls, you definitely can’t expect girls to come to you on their own.
So for many single older boys, a good way to meet girls is to go on a blind date. Girls on blind dates are introduced by acquaintances and are generally more reliable. It is a good way for single older boys to get out of singles. But there are three things you need to pay attention to when going on a blind date:
The importance of first impression
During a date, men generally focus on a woman’s appearance, but women are different. Their impression of a man does not entirely stop at his face or figure. Sometimes one of your buttons will determine whether she is a plus or minus. Therefore, a woman's first impression pays more attention to the whole, including the color of your tie, the perfume on your body, in short, from head to toe, from toe to head are included in the women's scoring criteria. And it’s not just men who understand: It matters whether I’m handsome or not. The truth is, sometimes it doesn't matter what you look like.
Attention to details
The reasons why gentleman men like women are: first, they understand women; Second, they know how to make women become more women. What does it mean? Understanding women means they know when a woman needs care or help from a man, especially when dating. Although most girls won't say it, if you can think about your own ideas and do what you want to do without her saying it, it will greatly increase their liking for you.
Pay attention to the arrangement of the date
If you are not fully prepared in advance for the date, This will inevitably increase the chance of the whole date being cold, for example: you take the wrong route when looking for a restaurant, or the restaurant you choose is not open today, including ending the meal hastily, each going home, each looking for his mother, as follows These will make the girl feel that you don't pay enough attention to the other person, or that you are not interested in her.
So what is the correct approach? Before dating, you should plant reasonable expectations in the chat so that she is full of expectations for the date. You must make specific arrangements for the date. This will make your The whole process is smoother, setting the stage for your next date. And dating is also done in steps. If you do not do well in one aspect, women will secretly give you points in their hearts, asking you where to go on a date, what details you should pay attention to, how to transition, and how to improve the emotional and physical relationship.
2. Learn to chat with girls
After getting to know a girl, try your best to communicate and chat with her! In In the process of chatting with her, if you want to catch up with the girl you like, you must deliberately achieve your goal. Then there is only one way: practice deliberately. Only hard work can make everything look effortless. There are specific steps for chatting and dating.
In terms of chatting, the following steps are generally required: arouse curiosity, establish a framework, demonstrate value, test interest, and then continue to intersperse cold reading, praise, flirting, push and pull, suppression, fugue, and reverse writing. , chatting skills such as breaking tests, situational implantation, etc. Moreover, it is very important that you know how to tell a DHV story (how to brag elegantly), how to give girls the sense of security they want, and how to test girls’ Obedience and more. For specific methods, you can add to learn more.
