It stands to reason that 33-year-old boys are usually married and have a career, but there are also many boys around us who are 33 and don’t even have a girlfriend. It’s not that he likes to be single and doesn’t want to find one, it’s that he wants to find one but really can’t find one. You Any idea why this is happening?
Why can’t I find a girlfriend at the age of 33?
According to normal circumstances, it sounds like you should already have a girlfriend or be married at the age of 33, but the specifics will depend on several factors and aspects of yourself, such as:
< h3>1. Do you have high expectations for your girlfriend?Do you have a clear understanding of yourself and what kind of girlfriend you are looking for? First, ask yourself what you want from your girlfriend. What is the minimum acceptable? You don’t have to fantasize about a too beautiful goddess. Just follow the ordinary rules. For example, if your family accepts a blind date, and you think the other person is pretty good in all aspects, then behave well, don’t be too stingy, and treat guests to dinner. Let's have a meal together, watch a movie and go shopping, talk to each other, these are the basics. Clean yourself up, don't look slovenly, coax you with sweet words, and it won't be a big problem.
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2. Do you take the initiative to find a girlfriend?
Some boys just talk about it I want to find a girlfriend, and I ask people everywhere for suitable introductions to me, but nothing happens. It’s like I said I want to study hard, but I don’t read or do homework all day long. I study hard based on my imagination. Can your academic performance improve? It doesn’t matter how you say it, but what matters is how you do it. I'm 33 years old, and it's really hard to find a girlfriend if I don't take the initiative.
3. Do you have any problems with your behavior?
It takes learning to interact with the opposite sex. Logically speaking, no matter what level you are in society, there are girls of the same level as you. , you get to know each other well, and the relationship will be a matter of course. At 33 years old, there is no problem in being self-reliant materially. Then if you still can't find a girlfriend, it can only be said that there is something wrong with your behavior. You can test yourself to see if you have friends with whom you have a good relationship. If not, you may need to reflect on yourself.
4. Are you too busy at work to have time to fall in love?
Or are you just busy at work? Have you developed and expanded some of your colleagues and friends’ life circles, as well as improved and demonstrated your self-worth? , has your social circle gradually expanded, participated in more meaningful activities, met more friends, friends of friends, and had more opportunities to meet potential girlfriends, as well as have various interpersonal relationships with people around you, each other Communicate.
5. Are you right?Do you have confidence in your relationship and marriage?
I don’t know if you are 32 years old and have never had a girlfriend, or are you on a hiatus now, or have you ever had one before? You also need to sort out and analyze your own attachment style. Some people have avoidant attachment, long for relationships and love, but are afraid to dodge when love comes, and dare not easily enter into intimate relationships. Therefore, you also need some calm thinking and analysis, and you also need to adjust your mentality and make various preparations. When you have the opportunity to find a girlfriend, whether you can seize the opportunity, and you also need to be able to manage and maintain the relationship.
