Introverted boys are not good at words and cannot let themselves go in front of unfamiliar people. Even if they meet a girl they like, they don’t know how to pursue them. Being single has always been a big problem that is difficult to solve. So how should introverted boys pursue girls?
If more introverted boys want to be single, they must first change their introverted personality, and introverted personality is generally caused by low self-esteem. It is caused by psychology, so the first step is to overcome the inferiority complex and make yourself confident. So how can introverted people become confident?
1. Pay attention to appearance and maintain mental outlook
A crisp suit will make a man dignified, so to improve your self-confidence, you can also start with decoration to improve yourself from the outside to the inside. When your appearance is praised by others, your self-confidence will definitely arise.
This is just an example. The key is not what kind of clothes you must wear, but that you have a different image every day. Research shows that women not only care about what they wear, but also care about what the men around them wear. When you change a contrasting style every day, women will be confused and become strongly curious about you. Some even They will also take the initiative to talk to you.
2. Practice looking at others squarely
Looking squarely will tell the other person: I am honest and aboveboard, my words are true, and you can trust me. You need to let your eyes work for you, which not only increases your confidence but also earns you trust.
3. Practice speaking in public
Public speaking can quickly exercise our self-confidence. Once we have the opportunity to speak in public, If you have an opportunity, seize it at all costs. Just say what you need to say, no need to think about what you are talking about, as long as you dare to say it, show your confidence. Do this again and again and your confidence will grow. This is the “vitamin” of faith.
Then it’s time to try to invite someone.
For example, when you are chatting in a good atmosphere, you can appropriately mention: XXX has opened a new restaurant recently. I heard that the food is good, the environment is good, and it is cheap. Let’s go have a meal together or maybe there is a new movie released recently. , I saw you said in the circle of friends, let’s go together tonight!
If the invitation fails, there is no need to try to keep her, and don’t be discouraged. We need to maintain our demeanor, and then answer her gracefully: Okay, then Next time we have a date, I just have time to have sex, to give girls the feeling that I am not the only girl.
If the girl successfully accepts the invitation, then you can open up the woman’s conversational box during the date. After all, chatting skills cannot be developed overnight, not to mention that we are relatively introverted, so we just let her talk and listen. In fact, most girls needBe a good listener.
Finally, don’t rush things.
Why do introverted boys easily fail in chasing girls? In fact, the most fundamental reason is that they are too "anxious". Generally speaking, introverted boys will choose to confess to a girl after getting acquainted with them, but girls often reject boys due to various considerations. Therefore, introverted boys should not be too eager to confess and confirm their relationship. In fact, they should stay calm and get to know the girl more and chat more.
Occasionally send her heart-warming words such as "Good night", remember not to say too much, but it must be just right. Such a warm man is still very attractive to most women, and it is easy to chase the girl they like.
