Nowadays, we can see Internet marketing articles such as "Women should learn to love themselves" everywhere, although at the end of the article they basically recommend various skin care products and cosmetics.
But it is undeniable that many girls dress themselves up beautifully and go out because they love themselves, and develop a confident and sunny attitude towards life.
As a species, boys also have various needs, and this society is inherently fast-paced and stressful, and boys bear the burden There are more things. So we should learn to love ourselves.
In the face of life, the innocent boy who was once young and ignorant has long been smoothed away.
From seventeen years old to twenty-seven years old.
What is lost is not only youth, but also the expectation of love.
I once thought about being together for the rest of my life, but now I feel that love is just buying a house, a car, and raising children in the name of "I love you."
Before getting married, you have to earn bride price and down payment. After getting married, you have to pay off the mortgage, car loan and earn money for baby milk powder.
However, you must remember to stop and feel the beauty of this world. Buy yourself a new piece of clothing and a new mobile phone. Or even just take a nap at home. These are all about preserving the last bit of comfort that belongs to you.
Finally, I understand that only by knowing how to love yourself, having a healthy body, and a positive heart can you love others better.
When most boys are chasing girls, they are stuck by "embarrassment" and "can't lose face".
What is the essence of the so-called embarrassment? It probably means that I don’t think I am very good. Because whether I am good or not mainly depends on the approval of others.
When others don’t like me, it makes me feel that I am not good enough and I will feel frustrated and frustrated. This is embarrassing.
No one can be liked by everyone they like.
But the difference is that some people don’t feel much loss and frustration when others don’t like them, while some people feel very strong about loss and frustration.
To get out of this seemingly absurd pattern, people need to accept their true selves, fall in love with their imperfect selves, and no longer fear that others will say they are not good, or that others will not like them. On the contrary, it will make more people like you.
In the popular TV series "Red Sorghum", Jiu'er said: "I don't care if Yu Zhan'ao still has me in his heart. You want to ask me if he still has him in my heart?"
People who truly love themselves will be like Jiu'er said. Whether he likes me or not is his business. I just like him. Such people will work hard if they like it, and let it go if they don't like it. Their relationship will become very simple, and insteadAnd there is no more suffering caused by speculation!
Love yourself first before loving others. I believe everyone has heard that there is no empathy in this world.
In the movie "The Great Gatsby", Daisy drove her car in a disturbed state and killed her husband Tom's mistress.
In order to protect Daisy, Gatsby assumed the responsibility of driving.
But Daisy made up her mind to abandon Gatsby.
Under Tom's instigation, his mistress's husband shot Gatsby. Gatsby finally became Daisy's victim.
The funny thing is that Gatsby never noticed the mocking smile on Daisy’s face until his death. The tragedy of Gatsby is that he devoted everything to the beautiful dream he weaved, while Daisy, as the embodiment of his ideal, only has a beautiful body.
How does a man love himself?
To put it simply, there are two ways to love yourself. levels, external and internal.
What is external is physical. That is to make yourself as healthy as possible, have regular meals, regular work and rest, regular exercise and physical examination; make yourself beautiful, take skin care seriously, pay attention to your appearance, pay attention to your conversation, read more books, learn more and dabble;
The inner part is Mentally. It means to listen to your heart, be yourself, neither humble nor arrogant, please yourself, satisfy yourself, enrich your spiritual world, strive to be the person you want to be, and strive to live the life you want to live.
These may seem fictitious, but they can actually be reflected in your own life.
