When you reach a certain age, if you are still single, your family and friends may arrange blind dates, and some people may even ask acquaintances to introduce you to someone. However, although a blind date is said to be an introduction from an acquaintance, its success depends on whether the two people can get along with each other. For example, if a girl on a blind date can't make a date, but she will chat and contact him, is there any chance in this situation? Do you still have to persist?
1. Reasons why the girl on a blind date can't make a date
1. Failure to establish a sense of security
If you can't get out and meet each other, you will feel distressed. Have you given the other party the necessary sense of belonging? After all, there are so many scam companies in society, and the results are poor. It is still difficult to casually go out and meet people chatting online. This type of girl usually belongs to the good-natured type. They don't believe in boys from strangers. If you ask her out, she will have a lot to think about. The first thought is whether you are a bad person. It is also possible that you have been deceived in the past, and then you will feel defensive in your heart. My friend used to be very innocent. He had a long-distance relationship with a boy, and then he became a playboy. Since then, I have refused to meet anyone I chatted with online.
2. The sultry girl
This type of girl may be more generous in chatting. But when they meet, they remember more to protect themselves. He will only play with people he knows very well. Moreover, relatives, friends and strangers have two different appearances in front of them. Men and coquettish women chatted and did not understand each other and did not meet each other. This is just one world of the Internet. Generally, reality and the Internet are very clearly distinguished, so they are also on different sides in the Internet age. They are only suitable for chatting and not meeting.
3. I don’t have feelings for you, and the chat replies are just out of politeness
Since blind dates are introductions, even if the girl on the blind date finds that she doesn’t have feelings for you and doesn’t want to continue, she We will reply to your message out of courtesy, but we may find reasons to refuse your invitation.
2. Should you insist on pursuing the girl on a blind date if you can’t date her?
Specifically, should you continue to pursue the girl on a blind date? , mainly analyze the reasons why a girl on a blind date can't get a date. If it's because she hasn't established a sense of security, then you may need to spend more time making her trust you; if the girl on a blind date is a sultry girl, she won't be able to date her in a short time. The correct way to accept your invitation is to continue to contact her. Once she feels familiar with you, it will be easy for her to make an appointment.
But if the blind date girl refuses to go on a date because she doesn’t have feelings for you, then it’s basically out of the question. How to judge specifically? Look at the frequency of the messages she replies, whether she replies in seconds, whether you say a lot and she only replies with one sentence, acting a little impatient... If you are lying on the above points, then it is ok gave up.
The blind date girl can’t make a date, but she can contact her.There will be certain reasons. Of course, in addition to analyzing the reasons for dating girls, you can also find reasons within yourself. Is it because she doesn’t like your invitation very much, is it because the timing of your invitation is wrong, is it because the last time you chatted gave her a bad impression... Only by looking for internal and external reasons can you know the key to solving the problem.
