Some inexperienced love novices are often confused: Why doesn’t the girl I like like me? I have already given so much to her, I have shown enough sincerity in chasing girls, and I have been chasing girls for a long time. Why is she not moved yet?
However, they did not realize that "sincerity" is an act with a very low threshold.
You can be sincere to a girl, your roommate can, and even your neighbor’s Lao Wang can too.
As long as you are willing, it is not difficult to greet the girl every day, cook for the girl, carry bags, or even spend money for her, it just takes time.
But this does not prove that you are the special person to her.
A girl has to choose the person she likes. When you sign a contract together, it doesn’t matter how much you like her. Therefore, chasing girls requires not only you to like girls, but also girls to like you.
A girl does not want a male servant to spend time (long-term) caring for her. What she is looking for is a boyfriend, someone who shares the same views, can have a heart-to-heart relationship with her, and is strong enough to protect her.
So, if you really want to pursue girls for a long time, you have to think clearly first:
a) What level of person is she, and what are the boys at the corresponding level like;
b) What kind of personality does she like in boys, and how different is this personality from yours;
c) How far are you from her goal of a boy, and are you willing to become a better person for her, someone more in line with her expectations.
After thinking about these issues clearly, you will first know whether there is any hope for you to pursue girls in the long term.
In most cases, you have no hope.
It’s not that you are not good enough, but because it is really not easy for a person to meet the right person. thing. Inexperienced boys often think too little when chasing girls. You may just be impressed by the other person's appearance and temperament, without considering the other person's personality, needs and family background.
Of course, if you are lucky enough, you will find that you can meet her requirements with a little effort.
Don’t be in a hurry to confess. Confessing is something you should only start doing after you have a certain degree of confidence. What you have to do is to become excellent silently, and then let her know quietly.
When you really meet her needs, maybe you only need to tease her, and she will respond enthusiastically to you.
At this time, let’s blow the horn of success with a confession!
