Whether they are boys or girls, they always care about the person they like, and their ex is a special existence among them. If it is not done well, it may affect the relationship between the two people. I heard a guy asking a question before: "Why does a girl get angry when a boy asks her about her ex-boyfriend?" This guy thought he was doing it to get to know the girl better, and the girl felt that the boy cared too much about her past, which made her angry. People are very stressed. So what should we do?
1. What’s your stance on asking a girl about her ex-boyfriend?
Since you two are not in love yet, what qualifications do you have to keep asking about a girl’s past? Girls are generally more defensive, and what a boy asks about her ex-boyfriend is undoubtedly rubbing salt into her wounds. . If you still want to chase her, just take your time and focus back on her. If you love her, why care about her past? Don't ask too much about anything else. Just let it go. Moreover, when a boy asks a girl about her ex-boyfriend, the girl gets angry. It is obvious that she has not come out of the shadows yet, which shows that there is still a long way to go.
2. The ex is always an untouchable topic
Two people Since they can go from getting to know each other to falling in love and separating, it means that they once loved each other, but in the end they became strangers. This means that there were ups and downs, and in the end the pain was more than the sweetness, so they chose to break up. This is an untouchable topic. I don’t think anyone is willing to reveal their scars to others, unless the girl brings it up herself. If the boy takes the initiative to bring it up, it is normal for the girl to get angry.
3. Girls think boys don’t care about them
Exes usually This is a topic that men and women have avoided before. Neither wants their partner to have an ex, and both hope that the other person will only think about themselves. Therefore, when a boy asks a girl how many exes she has, the girl will think that the boy doesn't care about her at all. Because if they care, boys will not ask about their love rivals. There was a couple who talked about their exes when they were together, and eventually the two broke up. When girls broke up, they also said that since they can't forget their ex, why bother looking for their current one? Wouldn't it be better to get back together with their ex? If a boy likes a girl, he shouldn't pay too much attention to her ex.
In fact, boys can also think about it the other way around. You definitely don’t want the girl you like to know about your unsavory past, as this may leave a bad impression on the girl. The same is true for girls. She doesn't want boys to know about her and her ex-boyfriend. She's afraid that this will become a problem for you.A thorn in the middle affects feelings. If you still insist on asking, then you are seeking your own death.
