Love is a matter between two people. Now that girls can choose boys, why can’t boys choose a better girl who is more suitable to be a girlfriend? So what kind of girl is suitable to be a girlfriend?
1. Know how to design your own image
We say that the best state of love is mutual achievement and mutual growth. . This is not only about psychology, but also about appearance.
Some people start to despise their appearance when it comes to appearance. Oh my, the pattern is small, but in fact, many outstanding people will also take care of their appearance very well.
A person who knows how to create an atmosphere can let you see her image and temperament on the surface, but behind the scenes is her self-discipline and taste.
Otherwise, if you look in the mirror and no one likes the way you look, there is a reason...
When you can find a girl who is self-disciplined and tasteful to be your girlfriend , your style and aesthetics will at least be improved by two levels, why not?
2. Know how to take care of other people's feelings< /h2>
People have a self-defense mechanism. When they encounter something that makes them uncomfortable, they will stay away. The aloofness of some girls makes people uncomfortable.
But the spare tire uses the rationality in his brain to cut off his own self-mechanism. He is paranoid that as long as he works hard enough, the girl will definitely throw himself into his arms.
This has nothing to do with empathy. And why some girls are praised for knowing how to take care of other people's feelings is because they have very strong empathy.
Not only can she see other people’s emotions, she also knows how to protect others’ self-esteem and vanity.
For example, if you are frustrated at work one day, she does not complain about your inability but says: "Don't be afraid of this small thing, let's start over."
Be with such a girl. , aren’t we full of positive energy every day?
3. Falling in love with the other half
Some people say that modern people’s concept of love will follow a kind of equivalence in principle.
The value of each person can be measured in the market. When men and women of similar value come together, the relationship is often more stable.
This can explain why many boys now accidentally cater to girls.
Because everyone seems to have acquiesced that the value of girls in their 20s is indeed unequal compared to boys.
Girls in their 20s almost always look good as long as they know how to dress up. But when boys are in their 20s, they need money but no money, no resources, no resources.Not very skilled either.
Boys do not have enough strength to give girls the sense of security they want, so when it comes to love in their 20s, girls usually take the initiative.
So in this very unhealthy situation, if a girl says, I choose a boy, it is to appreciate each other and live a good life.
