Falling in love and getting married are two completely different things. From falling in love to getting married, there is a running-in process. Only when the relationship reaches a certain level can you enter the marriage palace. When it comes to falling in love, to what extent can you get married?
To what extent can we get married?
1. Understand each other’s shortcomings
< p> When you are in love, you look at the advantages of the other person, but when you get married, you look at the shortcomings of the other person. When two people are together, if you don't even know the shortcomings of the other person, then you are not suitable for marriage.Because marriage is a marathon. If two people get along for a long time, their previously hidden shortcomings will definitely be exposed. Therefore, if you don't even know what the other person's shortcomings are, there will be a lot of conflicts after marriage.
2. The personalities and temperaments of two people are compatible.
When in love, neither man nor woman will Think a lot, maybe a shining point in the other person will make you fall in love. But if you want to get married, you need to consider many issues, including whether your personalities and temperaments are compatible in life.
You know, there will be a lot of trivial matters in married life. If two people have different views and personalities, then even if they get together, they will just torture each other. Therefore, it is an important prerequisite for marriage that two people's personalities and temperaments are compatible.
"If both of you are willing to accept each other's truth and believe that two people together will be happier and more interesting than one person; both of you are willing to give up all kinds of temptations for each other and be loyal to only one person from now on; both of you are willing to In order to become each other's family, break through the obstacles in front of you and regard each other as the fulcrum for the rest of your life. Then nothing can stop you from going to the palace of marriage. ”
It’s easy to understand why you should get married if you believe that two people will live better than one person. Whether you are in love or married, or even not married or in love, our ultimate goal is to live the life you want. If marriage for you, it will lower your living standard and make your life difficult. Whether you are happy or unhappy, then it doesn’t matter if you don’t get married.
It is not difficult to understand that we are willing to remain loyal to each other. Before you get married, your relationship is not bound by the law. Even if you are in love with the other person and you are also having an affair with another person of the opposite sex, it is only against morality at most.
But it will be different after marriage. Marriage is sacred. Behind a marriage certificate, there are the expectations of two families. Entering into marriage means that you must be loyal to each other and abide by " Monogamy" system.
