Some people think that if a boy’s education is too low, he will easily be looked down upon by girls, so it will be difficult for him to find a girlfriend. If this is really the case, then why are there still many boys who cannot find girlfriends after going to graduate school? Do you know why?
Why can’t graduate students find a girlfriend?
1. The circle of graduate students is too narrow
During the graduate period, everyone’s scope of activities is more limited, and they basically stay within the circle of the teaching and research office. Although there are many people in the school, there are only a few people who can actually say hello. Especially if you are still shy at heart, then what a great fate it is that you will have the opportunity to become friends, or even boyfriend and girlfriend. Moreover, you had such a large circle of people in college that you couldn't find a girlfriend, let alone a graduate student, and most graduate students are very busy and don't even have time to find a girlfriend. Even if there are girls around, many girls already have boyfriends in college or even high school.
2. Graduate students have high requirements for finding girlfriends
Graduate students have high academic qualifications, and they have high requirements for finding girlfriends. The requirements will become higher and more realistic, there will be more conditions, and there will be fewer people who meet the requirements. Moreover, graduate students are generally older, and when they fall in love, they usually rush to get married, so they are more cautious. Many times they set too many restrictions for themselves. In addition, graduate students don’t have much time to go out and socialize, so it is very difficult to meet the right person to be a girlfriend.
And there is bound to be a difference between graduate school and undergraduate studies, that is, the further you go, the more you will improve your knowledge and change your ideas through learning, and the higher your standards of life will be, so-called more and more understanding. What kind of partner is suitable for you? Therefore, you need to adjust your mentality at this time, just like the old saying goes: It’s never too late to eat well.
3. Graduate students are not interested in finding girlfriends
Graduate students only sound nice, but in fact graduate students are responsible for scientific research. The pressure is really great. I am so exhausted from doing experiments every day that I have no other thoughts about finding a girlfriend. Secondly, the communication scope is narrow. Except for the students in this research group, it is almost difficult to know and get to know other classmates and friends of the opposite sex. Finally, academic work has not been resolved yet, and if there is one more emotional "trouble", it will be difficult not to have conflicts. Therefore, many graduate students are actually single. Even if they find a girlfriend, they have no time to accompany her and cultivate a relationship.
Summary: Graduate students actually have certain academic advantages when looking for a girlfriend. This is considered a capital. The key is whether you can make good use of this capital to find an ideal girlfriend.
