Question: I am 27 years old, and my family introduced a girl who is two years older than me. In fact, I don't mind age. It mainly depends on how two people get along and whether they are satisfied with each other. But after chatting for two days and meeting for the first time, the girl on the blind date told me that she was older. Is this considered rejection? The screenshot of the chat is as follows:
Does it mean that a girl on a blind date refuses because she says she is older?
Answer: In fact, just look at the blind date The girl's description doesn't feel like a rejection, it just shows her attitude. On the contrary, it's a very frank response. After all, 29 is not too young for a girl. It is normal for her to worry about her age. To summarize the subtext of girls on blind dates saying they are older:
1. How much older am I than you? Can you accept this question and marry me?
2. I am not young anymore and am in a hurry to get married, but I don’t think you are in a hurry.
3. I don’t have that much time for romance, so bye bye if that doesn’t work.
What she means is that she is in a hurry to get married and will not spend a long time falling in love. She may feel that you are not as eager to get married as she is, so she is self-aware and does not want to waste time with you. If you're interested in her, take the initiative and dispel her concerns; if you're not interested, forget it, it's not your problem anyway.
Of course, what she said was actually a little bit of a refusal. At the same time, she wanted you to take the initiative and play it faster. It felt like she had been on many blind dates or had been in a lot of relationships, and she didn’t have that tendency. You have the passion and interest to find a partner, or you have the mentality that you can look for everyone.
If you really don’t mind that she is older than you and are willing to fall in love or even get married with her, then you should ask her Show your attitude, understand her, and be willing to cooperate with her. You can chase more closely during this process, but the key is to settle down quickly so that you still have some probability of success.
Of course, if you feel that love can be casual, but marriage should be done slowly, which is different from the idea of ??girls on a blind date, then you can retreat in time without wasting each other's time.
But if you show the girl on a blind date that you still want to be with her, and she still treats you lukewarm, then you can say 88 to her. There is only one possibility in this situation. The girl on a blind date saying that she is older is an excuse to reject you. The real reason may be that she does not like you, so no matter how hard you try to pursue her, there is no chance.
