When we like someone, we always hope that the other person can reciprocate our feelings. But sometimes, we encounter a situation like this: a girl says she doesn’t feel anything, so should we continue to pursue her? Let us discuss this issue below.
1. Understand what she thinks first
Before you start pursuing, understand what she thinks first . If she's made it clear that she doesn't feel anything, then you need to think carefully about whether it's worth trying again. If she just doesn't feel it for the time being, or doesn't fully understand you yet, then you can give yourself some time and slowly get closer to her and let her get to know you better.
2. Don’t pursue her with force
If a girl has made it clear that she has no feelings, then you should not pursue her with force. Doing so will not only stress and distress the other person, but it may also damage your friendship. So, in this case, the best option is to let it go and keep the relationship on good terms.
3. Give yourself some time
If you really like this girl and believe that you have enough charm and patience to win her heart, then you can give yourself some time Time slowly approaches her. However, in this process, you need to pay attention to the following points:
-Don’t be too proactive and make the other party feel pressured;
-Don’t try to change your personality or interests. Because doing so will only make you lose yourself;
- Don’t give up other important things, such as work, study and family, in the process of pursuit.
4. Accept the reality
Finally, if the girl still doesn’t feel anything, then you need to accept the reality and don’t take this matter too seriously. After all, everyone has their own preferences and choices, and you cannot force others to have feelings for you. I believe someone more suitable for you will appear in the future.
When a girl says she doesn’t feel anything, we should first understand her thoughts, don’t pursue her forcefully, and give ourselves some time. If there is still no result in the end, then we need to accept the reality and believe that someone more suitable for us will appear in the future.
