Many people don’t like blind dates because there are often cold moments and it’s embarrassing when two people can’t find anything to say, so young people nowadays are very resistant to blind dates. But there are always people who are forced by their families to go on a blind date, so what topics should be discussed during the first blind date?
1. Talk more about hobbies
When you can’t find a topic and the atmosphere is a bit awkward, two people can talk about some of each other’s hobbies. Usually, the topic of hobbies is easier to talk about and is suitable for relaxing the atmosphere. In addition, interests and hobbies can also reveal the personality of the other person. Knowing whether two people will be suitable for each other will not only increase the chattability but also make judgments.
2. Talk about your favorite food
Generally, a blind date will be held at a place to eat, such as a restaurant or a bar. This is a good time to talk about food. Taste the food on the table, talk about what you have eaten before, and ask the other person about their favorite flavors, understand whether both parties are loyal fans of a certain food, and find common hobbies.
3. Topics related to childhood.
For most people, childhood has very good memories. By talking about childhood memories, not only can you quickly establish a sense of identity and reduce the unfamiliarity of the first meeting, but you can also objectively understand the other person's life and growth environment, so as to initially judge what her family is like and how she grew up. Because the reason why a person's character becomes what he is now is closely related to his childhood experience.
4. Brothers and sisters
If you don’t know what to talk about on a blind date for the first time, you can talk to the other person. own family. Under normal circumstances, people are willing to share with those close to them, thinking that they are their pride. But in order to avoid embarrassment when you don’t know whether the other person’s parents are alive or divorced. You can talk about brothers and sisters to increase your understanding of each other, and if you want to know about the other person's family, it means you like her. This will increase her trust in you.
5. You can call your friends
If you are really worried and don’t know how to face strangers, then call your friends together. Young people prefer to be lively. Even if two people are together, it will be awkward, but a group of people is fine. It won't be so difficult if you two groups get to know each other quickly and then communicate again. Even after the meeting is over, you will have more private conversations with each other, which is definitely a great trick!
It’s normal for two people to be unfamiliar with each other and not be able to find anything to talk about when they first meet, but doing so in the long run is not conducive to your own search object. Therefore, when going on a blind date for the first time, it is best to make more preparations to leave a good impression on each other and enhance your self-confidence.
