Question:
I met a girl at a friend's party. I liked her very much, and we became familiar with her after going back and forth. We usually talk pretty well together, so I asked a friend to explore her voice. Unexpectedly, she said that she only regarded me as a good friend and brother, and also said that she looked down on me! This last sentence actually hurt me. The girl I like doesn’t like me, what should I do? Should I give up or persist?
Answer:
< p> First of all, you have to understand why the girl you like doesn’t like you. Is it because your financial situation is not very good? Also, you are not very handsome in your dress? Also, you are not interesting... Only when you understand the reason can you do it. Make the right changes to make girls change their attitude towards you. If you don't know why girls look down on you, you can try to make yourself more handsome. If it still doesn't work, then look for your shortcomings and change your appearance and personality until you meet her requirements. Try it! It’s a worthy girl. She really doesn’t like you. What you should do most is to make yourself stronger. Only when you become stronger can you have more initiative.Secondly, if the girl is resistant to you now, I suggest you use another way and mentality to get along with her. Maybe she doesn’t know you well or she is not ready to be a good friend with you. Or a relationship other than a good brother, you should maintain the existing relationship with her now, and you can also let her get to know you better. Maybe one day she will like you, you can't say for sure.
Finally, get along with her and let her go. When you want to help her, take action, and when you don’t want to, just look back. Just be clean, but don't cause trouble to her, and act firmly as a friend without any identity. And no matter how much you do, you must remember: you have to do so much to help her because you like her, and the psychological beneficiary is you. You will not feel wronged or disadvantaged at all (this is why I say if you don’t want to help, just do it) Just go back and pretend you don't know)!!
In this way, in the end, you won't end up with hate because of love, and you won't have that stupid thought of "I've given so much, why don't you like me?" Because no matter what others say, the decision-making power is yours. Whether you do it or not, and whether you pay or not are all your own decisions, and you should bear the consequences yourself. Is there any truth that anyone who pays more should be liked? So think twice before you act, and don’t spend even a minute regretting something once it’s done.
Summary: Love is so elusive, and the girl you like may not like you back. This is quite normal. Or just let go and choose other girls to pursue. There are so many girls to compare with, and she is not the only girl who is suitable for you. Or choose to persist and see if she will turn around for you in the end.Although this process may take a long time and the final result is unknown, as long as you feel it is worth it.
