Blind date is a very troublesome thing for many boys. Recently, I have found that many people are asking for the skills of boys in dating and falling in love. Below, the editor will share with you some skills of boys in dating and falling in love.
1. Pay attention to the words you use when chatting
Women are very emotional animals. So it's crucial to choose your words carefully during your first few interactions, especially your first. In interpersonal communication, expressing yourself as accurately, concisely and clearly as possible is also an extraordinary skill. In a blind date, you may miss a good match because you use the wrong words and are judged out of context as "macho" or "too lively and unstable".
2. Don’t be nervous
During the blind date, you must put yourself in a relaxed and happy state. The easiest way is to find a suitable topic to talk about. Once you have a topic, you will naturally feel less nervous while chatting. Think about your recent activities, reading, traveling, gossip, past experiences, etc. Of course, you can also practice and make perfect. If you do it ten or eight times, you will naturally not be nervous.
3. Be tolerant and appreciative
If you don’t like your blind date, it doesn’t matter whether the other person does or not. Don't hold any grudge against me if you fall in love with me. When dating, you should keep an open and positive attitude, sincerely praise others, sincerely care about her, and appreciate her. During the interaction, you will get to know the opposite sex better and better, and at the same time, you will get to know yourself better.
4. Pay attention to observing character and personality
When dating, you should not only look at the appearance, but also the inside. The vast majority of men care about appearance, but as their experience increases, they will return to more stable and essential levels such as character and personality. What you are looking for is a family woman who is suitable for you to appreciate and support you, not for the envy of others, nor for shameful vanity. Never touch a woman with bad character or bad character. If you touch her, you will lose your skin.
5. Don’t be afraid of rejection
Blind date is actually similar to chasing girls. Being rejected is very normal. None of them are heartthrobs, so there is no reason for everyone to love them so much that they get a flat tire while driving. Moreover, what you are looking for is the "most suitable one". It is not necessary and impossible for everyone to be obsessed with you. Being rejected is not a failure, being rejected without any understanding and progress is the real failure.
