When some boys are chasing girls, they want to chat with girls every day, thinking that this is sincerity and concern for girls, but they don’t know that girls actually have the urge to blacklist him. Why is there such a misunderstanding? Is it okay to chase a girl and not contact her for a few days?
1. Disadvantages of chasing a girl and contacting her every day< /h2>
1. Lose the sense of mystery
If you contact a girl every day, and during the chat, you tell the girl everything about you, then what new feeling do you have for the girl? Boys who cannot attract girls to actively explore in the first place are destined to lose their competitiveness.
2. Chatting has no quality
When chatting with girls, you should not only pursue how long you chat, whether you chat every day, but also pursue the quality of your chatting. For example, every time you chat with a girl, you can make her feel endless aftertaste, so she will look forward to chatting with you again. This is a successful way of chatting. If you keep in touch with girls every day and there is nothing new, what else is there to talk about?
3. Disturb girls
Everyone should have their own dedicated time. If you chat with girls every day, it will not only affect her work, but also make women feel that you are doing nothing all day and wasting time chatting with girls.
4. Expose your sense of need
The most important thing is that contacting a girl every day will prematurely expose your sense of need for her, giving the girl a natural sense of superiority and making it more difficult for you. Chase her.
Therefore, there is some truth in pursuing a girl without contacting her for a few days.
2. How to make girls come to you
1. Be cold to girls at the appropriate time
Some boys are too enthusiastic towards girls at first, which makes girls feel bored. . At this time, if a boy can be cold to a girl at the right time, he will not only make the girl miss you a little, but also take the initiative to chat with you. Why? Women have this kind of thinking habit. When you get close to each other every day, you will subconsciously feel that you are humble and will not cherish your own existence. And when you suddenly disappear from her eyes for a while, she will think of you instead. Therefore, sometimes chasing a girl and deliberately not contacting her for a few days can have a very good effect.
2. Improve yourself
If you want a girl to like you, you should attract the girl first. For example, if you are humorous, speak elegantly, and look handsome... If you are not attractive to girls yet, you can work hard to improve yourself first. I made a lot of changes after deliberately not contacting the girl for a few days. When your other face suddenly appears in front of a girl, it will definitely make her eyes light up. Girls are attracted to you and actively chat with you.
Chasing girlsDeliberately not contacting her for a few days does not mean not contacting her for ten and a half months. During this period, in addition to paying attention to the girl's psychological and emotional changes, you must also pay attention to your own progress. Otherwise, why would you let a girl come to you?
