Generally speaking, there are three reasons why a boy can’t find a girlfriend: no money, no power, and no skills in flirting with girls. While lack of money and power are both external factors, the main reason is the third one, especially for boys who have just entered the workplace.
Why are there so many working men unable to find girlfriends?
1. Not taking the initiative
The initiative here includes two aspects:
The first aspect: Some people say that you can’t take the initiative when chasing girls, otherwise you will lose half of the money.
What men should take the initiative is: take the initiative to create opportunities for women to get to know you and understand you. Instead of taking the initiative to give gifts, take care of her like a nanny.
The second aspect: take the initiative to exude your own male charm. Women like men with masculine charm.
Therefore, men should take the initiative to create their own charm.
A man’s male charm includes many aspects: a majestic body is an external manifestation, and confidence, maturity, and wisdom are internal manifestations. As for how men can radiate their own charm, I have talked about it before, so I won’t go into details here.
2. Not able to chat
This problem is estimated to be that more than 90% of working men cannot find a girlfriend The main reason for men.
Why can’t we chat?
On the one hand, my mentality is not good enough. When it comes to Girls’ Day, I will be nervous and afraid of being left out, so how can I talk about it? On the other hand, there is a lack of chat skills.
The mentality of chatting needs to be exercised slowly. You can try to chat with strangers more often, so that this behavior becomes a habit, and your mentality will naturally improve.
Regarding chatting skills, there are many methods. However, after many studies, they are not put into practice because they have not truly learned the core of each skill point, so they cannot draw inferences from one example.
3. Bad mentality
Always thinking: Just like the goddess you like at the beginning, Be your girlfriend. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. The correct love development process is: get to know--understand--friend--attract--ambiguity--girlfriend.
Never lose yourself for a woman. This is not a vigorous love. It is hurting yourself and others. A man who can take things up and put them down is a man who can do great things.
