Couples either quarrel or do not quarrel, and a situation will inevitably occur between the two. This fact tells us that the world is contradictory. You may have heard this sentence: Reality shows that most of the quarrels between couples are caused by some trivial issues. This sentence itself has obvious male tendencies, so we must solve the problem from the root of the problem!
Causes of quarrels
I believe no one likes to quarrel, because quarreling will not only affect the mood between male and female friends, but also affect their relationship. But quarrels always happen suddenly, and it is difficult to restrain them temporarily, because it is already difficult to control emotions at that time.
If you want to avoid quarrels, you need to find the reasons for them. Everyone has their own anger points. If a boy doesn't want to quarrel with his girlfriend, he should keep in mind what his girlfriend's anger points are. For example, she hates you spying on other girls. Even though you know it, you will do it again every time. This is completely unfair. It's meaningless. You need to refrain from any behavior that will irritate your girlfriend in order to avoid quarrels.
Ideas on resolving quarrels
When a quarrel occurs, the solution between a boy and his girlfriend is The ideas are different.
Boys’ thoughts: How to reach a consensus through reasoning and resolve quarrels.
Girls’ thoughts: How to make him understand how bad he is feeling, so as to solve his bad mood.
People usually think that boys will be more rational and girls will be more emotional. This can be well reflected in the incident of quarrels. Because boys care about external conflicts when they quarrel, while girls care about their inner mood when they quarrel.
How to stop quarreling
There is an adage that goes like this: Reason and girlfriend, you can only Choose one. If you are the sixth child in "Let the Bullets Fly", then "a bowl of fans can only be a bowl of fans", and your girlfriend is destined to miss you. The core of coaxing a girlfriend is to make the boy give up his own perspective and comfort her from the perspective of his girlfriend.
Therefore, coaxing your girlfriend is actually self-deception and coaxing yourself. Tell yourself: Don't be unreasonable. The focus at this time is not the conflict itself, but the mood affected by the conflict. This way boys can stop quarreling with their girlfriends very well.
