Most people who choose to go on a blind date and get married are actually a little anxious to fall in love and get married, so their purpose of going on a blind date is relatively clear, and they are rushing to get married, so some people have a strong sense of need. But we generally recommend not to show your neediness at the beginning of a relationship, so what should you do? Let’s discuss this issue below.
1. If you are introduced on a blind date by an acquaintance, it means that the other party has obvious needs for communication at this stage and lacks reliable suitors. But just because of this, you can't think that the other party is in your pocket, and you can do whatever you want. Why? Because people who go on blind dates also have pursuits. Many people, including women, have gone on blind dates many times, but they have not found the right one after so many blind dates. Why? Isn’t it because the requirements are high?
At this time, you must focus on attracting her with your own high value. If you express too many needs in front of this kind of blind date, then you will only become a base number in the other person's blind date numbers.
2. Girls over 25 years old who have entered the blind date stage seem to be more able to identify with good people than girls who have no need for marriage. method, as long as the external conditions of communication are suitable and fashionable, there will be no problem. But won’t those methods of using sweet words be counterproductive?
If your value is higher than that of the woman and effective attraction is achieved, Can expose more sense of need. If your value is lower than that of a woman and it is difficult to attract her, then it is better not to be too clingy. Girls like good people who are valuable, not good people who are worthless. It’s just that a woman who is in the blind date stage may have lower value requirements and be more accepting of good people. However, this does not mean that she can accept low-value people without any limit, nor does it mean that she can be easily attracted by good people. negative issues. There is nothing wrong with sweet words. The problem is people. A high-value man plus sweet words. Such sweet words are called flirting. And there is a kind of sweet talk called coaxing that girls don’t want.
3. In the initial stage of a blind date, the man should pay for meals and movies. If the man pays for everything, will it happen? It seems that the sense of need is too strong?
When we meet for the first time, it is definitely not wrong for the boys to pay for meals and movies. If you are willing to pay, women will generally think that you are stingy, rude, have no money, etc. If you give a girl such an impression, there may be no follow-up later.
4. If the online chat has been relatively harmonious for a period of time, but the other party has not shown interest in you the first time or two when you meet, can you show more of your needs, such as frequent contact and invitations, good night before going to bed, etc. .
This issue is still based on comfort.On the topic, it is still recommended not to expose too much sense of demand and look at specific issues separately. Frequently taking the initiative to contact the other party exposes too many needs, so it is okay to take the initiative. Under normal circumstances, if the other party takes the initiative to contact you, it is considered to be interested in you. If the other party does not take the initiative to contact you, it does not mean that he is not interested in you.
Summary
1. High-value attraction or exposure of more needs, showing that you are a good person, completely It depends on the requirements of the target. Even if it is a blind date, most people still want the other person to have high value to attract them, so please don't ignore the attraction in the blind date.
2. No matter where you are, high value is a must. No matter how much the other party needs for blind dates and interactions, a low-value man will still be unable to attract the other party unless no other high-value man will accept him. she.
In summary, during the blind date, no matter what your situation is, girls will be more able to accept your high-value nature. This is a good thing for many people who are high-value but will not be converted into attraction. The higher the value, the greater the attraction, and the fewer problems caused by the natural sense of need.
