Some people may not remember the name Li Caihua, but when it comes to Ellie in "The Temptation of Going Home", most people probably know who she is.
In the TV series of the past 10 years, Ellie is probably the most classic mistress image. This is a woman who is jealous of her sister getting the man she wants but cannot get, so she embarks on the mistress path of doing everything possible to seize the "love" that should belong to her.
From the moment Ellie appeared on the scene, she left the audience with a beautiful and sexy but mean and vicious impression because of her good self-feeling and scheming. Although she finally got together with the man of her dreams, she also He was punished for the evil he had done. A mistress and a scumbag ended up with one terminally ill and one ruined, both committing suicide by throwing themselves into the sea.
Li Caihua was already a hit before the show was aired, but after the show became popular, it slowly became popular It disappeared and seemed to have faded out of everyone's sight. Unexpectedly, it was suddenly pushed into the public eye again recently due to a piece of news.
Li Caihua, who plays Ellie, is also not very lucky in her marriage in real life. She and her husband Huang Yanshu have been married since February 2019. Counting from when she got the divorce certificate on the 2nd, to when she got the divorce certificate in September this year, the entire marriage only lasted for one year and seven months before it was announced that they were disbanded, and she had left the house.
Her divorce is very confusing. First of all, unlike the image of a third party in the TV series that is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, there is neither a third party nor scheming in Li Caihua's marriage in reality.
Moreover, Li Caihua, who is only 37 years old this year, is even better than Ellie in the TV series in terms of style and charm, almost It can be said that she is the type that every man dreams of most. How could she get married hastily?
It is reported that Li Caihua’s husband Huang Yanshu is a wealthy man with considerable assets. He holds an important position in the family business and is worth more than one billion. Moreover, her husband often prepares surprises for her, and the two have often traveled around the world since their marriage.
Everything seems so perfect, and the marriage that many people dream of is nothing more than this, but they still cannot resist these two lightning points.
The first was a flash marriage. The two decided to divorce after only dating for half a year.
The second is to gather less and separate more.
Li CaihuaLike her image in the TV series, she is a very professional woman. The difference is that she does not spend all her time immersed in love with her husband. As an actress, the nature of her work means that she always has to travel around. Therefore, the two were often separated from each other soon after their marriage, becoming a long-distance couple.
The wedding period was supposed to be the time when the couple was most intimate with each other, but they were forced to separate due to work. As a sexy and outstanding actress, Li Caihua was indispensable for being intimate with other actors during the filming process. How could a newly married husband accept this interaction?
In addition, due to the impact of this year’s epidemic, it is more difficult than usual for the two to meet. In a program in June this year, Li Caihua revealed My husband and I haven’t seen each other for three months, and we are already strangers to each other.
Just like the stability of a house depends on its foundation, two people get married in a hurry and get together less and divorce more after marriage. The foundation of marriage is The relationship was not deeply established before marriage, and the best time to make amends in the first half year after marriage was abruptly interrupted. It is unreasonable for such a marriage to continue.
It can be seen that there are many things in reality that cannot be solved with money. Marriage is the continuation of love. Love is an existence that cannot be measured by reason, let alone light. Things you can have if you have money.
Their two lightning points happen to be problems that many people have.
It is not uncommon for many couples and couples, especially young people with poor financial means, to separate from their lovers in order to work hard for their careers. When work and love conflict, rational people will choose career first. Otherwise, if the financial foundation is lost, love will become rootless duckweed.
For this reason, many people like to use this sentence to numb themselves: True love does not care about distance. Two people who truly love each other will not stop loving each other just because of distance. If your mind wanders just because you can't meet in person, it means it's not true love.
In fact, it is distance that destroys marriage!
For long-distance couples, the first crisis is Trust issues. Because we are unable to appear next to each other, the two sides cannot accurately grasp each other's whereabouts, and neither of us knows what the other is doing, and the seeds of doubt will take root and germinate.
Secondly, companionship is irreplaceable for emotional needs. In reality, falling in love does not mean that people can ignore everything. There are very few people who can tolerate platonic pure spiritual love. The intimate relationship between husband and wife always relies on intimate interaction to maintain it.
Especially for young couples who have not been married for a long time, it is undoubtedly very painful to only use mobile phones to send love from a distance. Coupled with the constraints of loyalty, it is impossible for two people to find another partner as they wish.
This kind of pain will not followAs time goes by, it will only get stronger and stronger like wine.
Some people say that being with your partner is like a romantic couple having a one-night stand, meeting in a hurry and parting in a hurry. Some people say that they are better than being single even though they are not single, and it is a hundred times harder than being single.
Finally, long-term separation in two places affects not only the relationship between husband and wife, but also the education and companionship of the children. After all, it is impossible for a child to be divided into two halves and live with both parents at the same time. He can only choose one of his parents. In this way, the love and personality cultivation obtained in the family will inevitably be missing.
If you and your partner have reasons to separate, remember to see each other more often and don't let your marriage stay on the phone. Even if they say tens of millions of words in the video, they can't compare to a gentle touch on each other's faces in real life.
Only a lover who is visible and tangible is true love.
