Although people who are always dumped by girls are pitiful, poor people must be hateful. Not all men who are dumped by girls are worthy of pity and sympathy. What kind of wishes does a boy who is always dumped by girls have? Woolen cloth?
Not long ago we received such a request for help. In the request for help, the boy said that he had recently made a girlfriend and had not talked about it yet. One month later, this girl broke up with him. She was very determined and asked us how we could get back together.
After we got to know some of his situation, we found that this boy didn’t know how to get along with girls, and he didn’t know what to say every time we met. The same goes for chatting on WeChat, and because of his low emotional intelligence, he often unintentionally made his girlfriend unhappy. As a result, the girl wanted to dump him after less than a month of dating him.
The advice given to him by Wandering Emotions here is to improve his emotional intelligence first, and then think about redemption.
Because the fundamental reason why he was dumped by a girl was that he didn’t know how to get along with girls or fall in love, which led to the breakup.
In fact, if you think about it, when your monthly salary is 5,000, I will lend you a 3 million Porsche to drive, but you have to take care of the monthly expenses yourself, including car insurance, maintenance, and gas for a year. Just 50,000-60,000. You have this car, but can you really afford it?
It may be easy for a girl to fall in love with you. For example, if you like you and you treat her well, but after getting along, both of you will be exposed. If you can't figure out your shortcomings and shortcomings, being dumped is inevitable if you can't master how to get along. Because from the beginning to the end, you have not mastered the method of getting along between the sexes!
When going to see a doctor, you know to find an old expert and professor;
To learn to drive, you must find an experienced instructor;
To learn to chat, you must find a teacher who has rich practical experience and is very good at chatting and chasing girls.
Only by learning from others can you improve and make rapid progress.
For those boys who are often dumped by girls, the real reasons are nothing more than the following two:
1. Girls are pursued by kneeling and licking
In principle, it is possible to chase girls by kneeling and licking them, but the side effects are huge
First: You have no dignity
Second: You pay a lot
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Third: It is easy to be taken away by a man who is more promiscuous than you
Just like if you take the subway for two hours a day to pick up women from get off work, there will always be a day when you get annoyed. If you don't answer that day, she will think you don't love her anymore.
2. RelationshipBeing dominated by the woman
There are many common sayings to describe a person's behavior of pushing one's limits, and most of them are used to describe women
For example: "tick on the nose and get in the face" "if you don't touch the house for three days"
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If an apple in the supermarket costs 3 yuan today and 2.5 yuan tomorrow, you will think that you can buy it for 2 yuan the day after tomorrow.
This is especially true for women. Today you give in and agree to buy her 200 yuan of shoes. Tomorrow she will ask you to buy her 500 yuan of clothes, and the day after tomorrow she may ask you for 1,000 yuan. A dollar bag
There are skills and methods to know when to give in and when to be tough. If you want to know more, you can scan the QR code below for consultation.
