Most boys think that girls are obsessed with handsome, rich men, but in fact, these qualities of responsibility, sincerity, and reliability are also what attract women. So what kind of man can women be obsessed with?
For example:
I have a buddy He is a super handsome guy. Even though he is very emotionally dull and not very talkative, he always has many suitors around him.
However, it was such a boy who encountered a "Waterloo" emotionally.
He had always liked a girl at that time. The girl looked very quiet and was a study committee member. She was very good at studying and played the guzheng very well.
In appearance, my friend is sunny and sporty, which makes her a perfect match.
However, this girl is a wild type at heart.
The music I usually listen to and the movies I watch are all the kind of "death metal", "gothic rock", "heavy forbidden movies", "sci-fi horror" and so on.
She longs for bohemian love in her heart and likes the boy dressed in punk style.
Later, she rejected my buddy’s confession and dated a boy who had the same hobbies.
That boy looks like a rock-and-roll boy who plays heavy motorcycles.
In other words, although most people say that when you fall in love, it depends on your face and money. However, these conditions can actually help you attract a lot of people, but they may not necessarily attract you. Let you have a relationship with him.
Therefore, in this regard, if your appearance is reasonable, passing is enough. The higher the score, the better.
However, if this girl is a glasses person, and you often wear glasses in a gentle manner and satisfy her fantasies, she will easily fall in love with you;
If the girl is a hand person, She likes boys’ slender and white hands. If you have them, she will fall in love with you easily;
She likes talented boys (not a general term, but specific talents. For example, a girl likes the piano prince, As a result, even if you are a top computer fixer, it won’t work). If you can satisfy the other person’s fantasy of talent in this regard, the other person will easily fall in love with you.
There are many examples like this, but it only boils down to four words,
“Prescribe the right medicine to the case.”
Just like I fell in love with her friend when I was young, the opportunity for them to get together was actually a good medicine to "prescribe the right medicine".
It just suits the other party’s appetite.
Therefore, it is actually very easy to have a good impression of someone. But with someoneFalling in love, the kind that is serious, really needs a "booster".
Because you only have a "good impression" and the development of your relationship is very dull. If you don't have any "points" that cater to the other person's thoughts and love fantasies, it will be difficult for your relationship to develop into a particularly deep and close relationship. of.
The point is that psychological distance is difficult to close.
Compared with boys, girls value more the distance between two people’s hearts and the “emotional satisfaction” that the other person can provide them.
Generally I don’t tell others, but girls actually value this very much.
Focus on what you like, get to the point, and focus on the heart, which is the best way to get girls deep into their souls.
If you have a girl you like, just give it a try, observe more and take more actions, it is actually very effective.
