Most girls can’t stand being alone. They have several best friends around them. If you want to chase such a girl, you can start with your best friends. However, there are also a small number of girls who like to be alone. Such girls How to pursue it?
1. Start as a friend
No girl likes to be alone, so this girl may I have experienced the warmth and coldness of human relationships, and I have seen the routines of boys chasing girls. I feel insecure, and I am suspicious and resistant to all closeness to others. For this kind of girl, don't even think about going straight in, as you might be blocked at any time.
If you want to pursue this kind of girl, you can choose to start with her as a friend. Your purpose must be simple and clear at the beginning. You can start topics with girls from work, hobbies, etc. This is an icebreaker. stage, so don’t rush.
When a girl is willing to share some private matters with you, it means that the girl has begun to accept you, and you have upgraded to a friend relationship, but do not choose to express your feelings at this time, because this type of girl has a very low sense of security. Your actions may cool down your relationship.
The most important thing you need to pursue this kind of girl is patience. Don’t think that you can impress her with a surprise and effort. Only by continuously deepening her trust in you and giving the girl a sense of security and dependence can you capture her. her heart.
2. Start with a competitive spirit
There is a type of girl who has been pampered since she was a child because she has outstanding looks and has been compared. The more attention and care from others has developed a solitary character that goes its own way. This kind of solitary behavior has a certain degree of showing off. It is the kind of thing that when you praise her, she takes it for granted, but when you ignore her, she feels lost and feels I was left out.
If you want to pursue this kind of girl, you have to let her see that you are different from other boys. This kind of girl will have a competitive spirit. You can use this kind of competitive spirit to keep your attitude in front of this kind of girl. Be confident and calm when getting along with girls, giving girls a feeling that they can't guess you. Stay confident in front of such girls, get along with girls calmly and calmly, and appropriately suppress some wrong behaviors of girls. Girls will feel that you are different from others. If you are different, you will not be favored.
3. Detour strategy
These girls have strong personalities or are relatively successful in their careers. The quality of life is very high, you don’t need to rely on other people, and your life is well organized.
If you want to pursue this kind of girl, you may not succeed if you want to use hard power, because you may not have the strength, or they do not need someone who is more self-centered than themselves in their psychology.
You can choose a roundabout strategy to avoid a direct conflict with her, chooseRecognize her achievements and strength. A woman who wants to be strong will also have a fragile side. At this time, you can point out her vulnerability and express your empathy. When she is willing to tell you about her vulnerability, use actions to encourage and comfort her, tolerate and care for her. She brings a sense of security to girls, and you will become unique to her.
