If you are very familiar with a girl, can you still pursue her?
The answer is yes, but at the same time, it is very easy for girls to put you in the friendship zone. Because as the time two people spend together increases, the attraction will gradually decrease. To put it simply, you have not entered the honeymoon period yet, but have directly entered the running-in period.
Under such circumstances, many people are stuck in one area forever - the friendship zone.
But don’t worry, it’s very simple to catch her as long as you use the right method. So what exactly should be done?
1. Reshape attraction
The first step is to temporarily put the relationship on hold. , the second step is to create new attraction points.
Why should we put the relationship on hold for a period of time? It’s because the two of you are so familiar now, and the other party has long been accustomed to your presence and company. We need to temporarily put the relationship on hold to let her reminisce about the relationship. The days when you are around.
Not contacting the other party for a short period of time or reducing the frequency of contact with the other party will make her uncomfortable - where is this person? She used to see him often.
First, whet the appetite of the other party, and then at the same time we start high-value display in the circle of friends:
Find a photographer to take some good photos for you, not only to show Your appearance can also be seen in your clothes;
Find a few cute animals to take photos with you and show your love; synchronize your interests and hobbies, whether it is basketball or basketball cartoon.
2. Increase competition factors
In fact, if you like someone and have known her for so long, If you say she has no feelings for you at all, I don't believe it.
So why is it that someone who can sense that you are attracted to her and has been able to get along with you for such a long time cannot confirm a relationship with you, but has to put it off again and again?
This is because she feels that your availability is too high - there is no rush anyway, this person will be mine sooner or later, just take your time and hang him up.
Once you are hanging on, something will happen. She enjoys you so much that she has no motivation to be your partner anymore.
At this time, she must give her some tips: Don’t be so arrogant, someone wants me too.
Think about it, even if your friend of the opposite sex is single, you will feel a little uncomfortable in your heart. If you switch to someone who is actually ambiguous, do you think she will feel better?
During this time, ask a few friends of the opposite sex you have good relationships with to go out and have fun, and then take pictures of the food and scenery. Inadvertently let your friends of the opposite sex enter the mirror or show their hands to make her aware of this. Thing - you don't have to do it with her.
Then if she asks what's going on, she will say lightly: It's nothing, just going out to eat. Or you can be meaner and tease her directly: Oh, are you so concerned? Could it be that you have something on your mind?
This kind of attitude of neither admitting nor denying is the most appealing to the other person and the easiest thing to make the other person feel. to pressure.
3. Physical contact
We usually hold each other’s hands when there are a lot of people and there is a car coming. When you are on the subway, you pull the other person's arm, and when the subway is crowded, you help the girl block the people around her...
Although this kind of physical contact is slight, it can quickly increase the ambiguity index.
Friends do not hold hands, and only a handful of friends even get physically close to each other.
But if you do this, it will make her "reverse rationalize" subconsciously - she will feel that your relationship seems to have become different. There is something she cannot explain clearly, but it is real. feeling.
Methods like physical contact are the most common way we break through the friendship zone - if you have known each other for such a long time and do not dare to have physical contact, then your relationship will definitely be frozen in this cold palace forever. in.
This is how we deal with those girls who have been with you for a long time and have not been with you for a long time - we reshape attraction through secondary attraction, and we use competitive jealousy to get the other person started. We value you. Finally, we upgraded the physical relationship to increase the ambiguity between two people.
If you have known each other for a long time and want to get out of the friendship zone, you must use this method to break the original awkward boundaries between you.
Don’t be timid or timid. Do you want a forever “friend” or a possible lover?
