A sullen boy often does not clearly realize his own sultry personality. Today, the editor will take you to understand what a sultry boy really looks like. At the same time, you can also take a few minutes to identify whether you are one of them. A boring man.
① Mensao is a neutral word, but you always think it is a bit derogatory?
②You Are you interested in perfume?
③Do you particularly care about what others think of you?
④Are you sometimes confident in your appearance and sometimes feel inferior to yourself?
⑤You Have a special skill and are proud of it?
⑥ Are you sensitive to words, music, pictures and other media that are different from ordinary people?
⑦ Do you think that everyone is a dog, and they are all real dogs? Are you a hero who laughs at yourself?
⑧As a boy, do you have too many unknown tears?
⑨At the end of the day, are you pessimistic about the world?
⑩ Do you often feel that other people’s laughter points are too low?
"Yes" gets one point, "No" "No points are scored, and the number of "yes" represents the degree of boredom.
If you get ten points, then you are a sultry man in the ultimate fully evolved form.
If you score one point, then you also have a little bit of the moronish attribute.
If your score is greater than six points, then you are undoubtedly a sultry man.
Of course, being sultry may not be a bad thing, and some of its qualities can even attract girls. For example, your sensitivity, your arrogant talent, your gentleness and thoughtfulness, your carefulness...
But there are some things that must be changed in order to catch up with the girl you like.
1. Men who are flirtatious can easily fall into long-term secret love
The cost of silence refers to expenses incurred in the past that have nothing to do with the current decision-making.
For example, if you are waiting in line to buy breakfast, you have been waiting in line for twenty minutes. You really want to eat breakfast, so you spend time to get it.
At this time, you suddenly received a call. Your boss asked you to go back to the company immediately because there was something urgent to deal with, and you had five minutes to buy breakfast. Most people will choose to give up the breakfast in five minutes, give up the cost of the 20 minutes invested, and choose to go back to the company.
When it comes to relationships, most people will be confused for a moment, because many people will think that the time, energy, and financial resources devoted to the goddess are appropriate and can be achieved. It's definitely yours after five minutes of breakfast, and there's no progress bar when it comes to getting a girl.
And with the accumulation of our efforts, we will subtly deepen our recognition of the relationship between the two parties. There will be a feeling that we are more than friends and lovers, right?Right?
This, to a certain extent, weakens your urge to express your feelings.
2. Confession can only be successful during that specific time
Confession, you must confess, If you don't express your love, you deserve to be a backup for the rest of your life.
In fact, the sultry man is not as bad as he thought. No one is perfect, and it would be too stupid to use one's own shortcomings to attack the enemy's strong points. However, confessing one's love requires more than just courage and passion.
If a girl has the following symptoms, it is a good time to confirm the relationship:
? Frequent posts on WeChat Moments are not to share life, but to take selfies with chicken soup.
?I will take the initiative to chat with you every day and share my life with you.
?Will care about you and ask you some things. (Necessary condition)
? Act coquettishly to you, pretend to be angry, and give you a chance to coax her.
?I will echo your remarks and do not want to have a heated argument with you.
?Reply to your messages quickly and often with a long paragraph.
If there was a time when she was like this, then she became cold. So congratulations, you will never be able to pursue her again, but in order to dispel your thoughts, I still suggest confessing your love, she will refuse, and then you will be reborn.
Only then will you realize that not only are you not that bad, but she is not that good either.
3. Need to try many times outside the safe zone
Men and coquettish men will pay special attention to their own people Because of this, I don’t dare to do things that go against my personality in a familiar environment, and I am constrained in terms of flirting with girls.
Therefore, the third piece of advice is to meet girls online, or meet girls through chatting. This way, the pressure on the boring guy will be much less, and he can perform to his due level. Only then do you realize that it is actually very easy to fall in love as long as you get rid of the "Goddess of Destiny Syndrome".
Moreover, don’t fall in love with the purpose of getting married. Only when you are young and have the courage to try and give up can you find a girl who is truly suitable for marriage.
