Nowadays, most single men choose to go on blind dates or are forced by their parents to go on blind dates. However, this kind of boys may have less contact with girls, and the two of them have never been in contact before, so they are talking when they meet for the first time. It is inevitable that you will fall into embarrassment during the process. If you encounter this situation, the editor recommends that you work on topics to resolve the situation. So what kind of topics can avoid embarrassment during a blind date?
1. Find common topics
For example, ask you directly what your hobbies are? Then they answer, tea ceremony, novels, music ah.
Then you happen to like it too, even if you find a common topic.
What if you don’t like it? Let’s take the tea ceremony as an example. You can say, what kind of tea have I drunk and what did it feel like? Please introduce it to me. As for reading, what are some good books that you have read? Can you recommend them to me?
This is also a common topic.
Another example is to see what’s special about the other person? Hairstyle? Watch? Earrings? Brooch?
Appropriate compliments can light up the other person’s emotions and bring out these special features. Tell the story behind the place and let the other person start talking about you;
2. Screen to find interesting points
If you want to find an interesting person, the best way is to first let yourself become Gotta be interesting. Many friends think that girls are too defensive about themselves, not proactive, and have no topics to talk about. In fact, what you see in her is just a reflection of yourself. Therefore, if you want to make the other party appear interesting or show a lively personality, you must first develop in this aspect yourself. The advantage of doing this is that you can leave a deep impression on the other party, move forward in the details, and while taking the initiative in speaking, you will also slowly take the initiative in the relationship;
3 Start the topic with a TV show.
China on the Bite of the Tongue? I’m a Singer?
Except for people like me who don’t watch TV, most people will find resonance after talking about a few TV programs. And even someone like me, who doesn’t watch TV, watched Tip of the Tongue. What should you do if you can't find resonance? If you are an avid TV show lover, then mention a few programs that you find interesting to the other party, and then talk about which one she is interested in in depth. What you see.
If you don’t like it and others don’t like it, then you have to skip this section quickly;
4 hot topics off the court
If not Girlfriend, what are you doing every day? Although there are those who study hard to recharge or attend various training classes, most people will browse Weibo to read the news. The characteristic of the information age is that you do not need to take the initiative to do so.Search for information, and the information will be pushed to you proactively, so today’s gossip hot spots and celebrity headlines can also be a good entry point. First, it will prevent the date from being a dull moment and focus her attention on you; second, it will also But test her personality and values, consider the compatibility with your own, and think of new strategies and topics.
It is best to be logical during the conversation, and show your humor, fun, and what makes you different from others. But I always feel that humor is something you are born with, and of course it can be accumulated over time. You are a funny person in life, so it will be difficult for you not to show it during the chat. For a person who is usually very rigid, no matter how he tells jokes or stories, they all look far-fetched. So, be an interesting person first.
