Many people think that aloof girls are hard to chase, but in fact some girls who seem aloof are easier to chase. The aloofness of many girls is a kind of disguise, or a habit of self-protection. Today we will take a closer look at how this kind of coldness on the outside is hot on the inside, and why is it easier to pursue?
< p style="text-align: center;">1. Girls who don’t play tricks or drive cars
This kind of girls have a strong sense of boundaries, and they interact with people they don’t know well. When chatting, she won’t even pick up on your jokes, let alone take the initiative to drive.
It is this "sense of justice" that makes people feel untouchable. But if you pursue her openly and sincerely, she will compare you with greasy boys in her heart. With the comparison, she will naturally give you a lot of points.
2. Girls who always love to take care of others
There is a girl like this around me. Even though everyone is a girl, she always feels that other girls are flowers and she is a big one. Shuzhuzi, when in a car, you must open the door first and get in first, carry the heaviest bag when shopping, and always lend your sun umbrella to other girls when you go out.
Often it’s girls like this who make boys feel like they don’t need another person around them. But do you think she is born to be a nanny? Doesn’t she long to be taken care of? Don’t ask me how I know, it’s all my friends who said it themselves.
3. Independent girls
This kind of girl will solve any problem by herself first , connect sewers, change light bulbs, book hotels and flights, and arrange yourself clearly. If you really need help from someone, the attitude is very polite and you will definitely return the favor afterwards.
But girls like this will give boys a sense of alienation and feel that they can live a good life without a boyfriend. Think about it, does she have a boyfriend just to find a tool? On the contrary, it is because they are more independent and their requirements for the other half are simpler, and that is love, which is enough. If they are financially independent, they will value equal relationships between men and women more.
Although she has lived alone for a long time, her quality of life is gradually improving. If she wants to go to a concert, she can go. If she wants to travel, she can go. She has taken a fancy to limited edition ones. Bags can be bought in a hurry, and from time to time, a group of people can get together to have a party and eat, and she can willingly pay for it.
If the girl you like is like this, remember, don’t give out red envelopes during the holidays. You can spend a little money to prepare a thoughtful gift. It’s better than receiving red envelopes. With others, she cares more about your details and thoughtfulness.
4. Careless girls
This is very interesting. Some girls are very good in the eyes of us girls. They are beautiful, tasteful, and have a straightforward personality. Her laughter can be heard everywhere all day long. You can hear it from across the street. That kind of, often this kind of girls are mostly single.
5. Girls with rich experience
Many girls have come into contact with many people and things early due to family, school or work reasons, and have gone to many places. From the process of contacting her, You can feel that she is a female classmate with a story.
At this time, many boys began to feel scared, "Can someone like this like me?", "I have never even left the country and I don't dare to chat with her."
But in fact, such a girl has seen a lot of things clearly. She may not have experienced a lot herself, or it may be that she has learned a lot of life experience from coming into contact with many people, including love. Likewise, when it comes to love, she will be more mature, more transparent, and more aware of what she wants.
When you get angry, you must do it in a reasonable and reasonable manner rather than being willful and reckless. If this kind of girl likes you, there is no need to pursue her. If she has no feelings for you, you will have no chance of pursuing her.
